~ dropping from head to heart (especially before engaging mouth!)
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September has arrived way too soon for me, a Spring / Summer Hot Climate lover!
I’d like to address Vulnerability today along with Negative and Uncomfortable Emotions …
Conscious Relating moves us out of our place of comfort, to lovingly embrace and communicate those subjects that we’d prefer to remain hidden … why do this? There is a mountain of hidden beauty in diving deeply into the core of our wounds, breaking surface, understanding who we are and who we came here to be and how in turn, we become truly powerful.
It’s okay to feel sadness, shame and negative emotions, it’s all perfect and allowed. The key is knowing how to navigate those emotions and feelings to best serve you and those around you. Allow any discomfort to gently nudge you into the best versions of yourself.
This kind of vulnerability leads to even more healing, growth and strength. Vulnerable, heart-centred truth equates to freedom for all.
I’ve been absent a while for a few personal reasons; death of my beloved Soul Twin on 30th July has been the worst part. The special Life Adventure we each inhabited and the steps we individually took, reunited us in 2015 … instant recognition on every level for us both. What a gift we experienced together and deeply loved with pure heart-centred love! He gave me his heart to treat kindly and treasure for eternity. He chose to leave this life, reasons we both acknowledged and understood.
His death won’t be in vain as he so adored and encouraged my Conscious Relationships work; I know he’s still with me, guiding me on to assist Men and Women on an ever more impactful way. We both agreed it was time for me to act on what was being asked of me time and again … being there for you adorable Men!
Each challenge we face in life is an opportunity to discover the beauty and strength within, surrender and move forward and upwards. I consciously choose this.
We may associate over-giving and putting ourselves at the bottom of the list with females, but I see it in so many males too. It makes us all ill when we don’t take care of ourselves first and foremost, it’s not selfish because when we have our tanks full of what we need, we can give even more from that place. Trying not to hurt anyone inadvertently hurts everyone one way or another.
The biggest difference is that Women can and do talk about everything to friends, family, colleagues; therapy in itself. Whereas Men tend to keep everything bottled up inside, unwilling or unable to talk about their own hopes, dreams, fears etc. And yet, Men, in my years of experience, are actually longing to talk about how they feel, what they desire, their hopes and fears, dreams and ambitions. I adore it when they do, best gift ever!
Conscious Relating is essential for us all to learn … how to communicate effectively without shame, blame, judgement, fear etc. It teaches us to be responsible for our own thoughts, feelings, actions, reactions. It teaches us to understand ourselves as well as others. It teaches us to be grown-ups which in turn reveals to us the relationships we most desire.
Your footsteps won’t entirely follow mine or footsteps of those who walk this path alongside me, however, if all or some of this resonates with you or provokes interest, I’m here to Guide you on your quest to develop more Conscious Relationships, positively impacting your entire life and all relationships from the Bedroom to the Boardroom and everywhere in-between 😉.
With that in mind, please take advantage of my Complementary Discovery Session here https://calendly.com/houseoffeminine to see if working together will be beneficial for us both. Thereinafter, £30 discount on each of your first 5 sessions booked in advance.
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