Full information here: https://lnkd.in/gk-g488

The culture we currently inhabit is not functioning effectively when it comes to relating authentically. The sacred feminine and masculine are asking you to show up and step up to be empowered in your true nature. The masculine and feminine within ourselves and separately has enormous power to create pleasurable relationships by rising above old boundaries and belief systems. From there we grow. First we must learn to love, please and pleasure ourselves, then we can learn to love, please and pleasure others. That’s true sacredness.

Here is the opportunity for you to explore the depth of your true essence. Now is the time for us all to create CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. The world needs your true authentic power!                        

Hove, East Sussex (address upon booking)

Thursday 3 May 2018 ~ Women / Friday 4 May 2018 ~ Men – 9.30am-4.30pm both days

Cost: £99 payable by 20th April 2018 / Light Vegetarian/Vegan Lunch included

Full details of the day emailed to you upon booking. Any questions contact Rachel 07786 912 355 or Carmen 07762 988 567

Facilitated by Rachel Gedney & Carmen Vesztergom

Full information of the One-Day Experience here: https://lnkd.in/gk-g488

When Women gather in circle and Men congregate in groups, anything and everything is possible. Holding space for each person and a container for all is where real magic originates, transforming everyone. This is the leading edge of personal growth and development – the final frontier.

Rachel and Carmen will guide you step by step with love, compassion, graceful mastery, with the highest integrity. From this One-Day Experience, you will come to appreciate what is possible for you should you wish to Explore further with them over 6 or 12 months.

This is where you will learn the depth of Body Intelligence, overcome limited mindset and belief systems and tune into instinctual cues, learning to shed some inhibitions without harming others. Remove the straightjacket of societal norms, listen to the sensation in your own gut giving you messages, urging or warning you to take action. Body and Mind working in harmony once more. Add Spirit to this and you have a powerful force … all from within.

Something to contemplate. Agree or disagree, choice and free will are yours.

I write from an open loving heart, with dignity, respect, integrity, honesty and above all as a truth seeker.

These words are from genuine conversations and observations of thousands of women and men around the world, some of whom are my clients and students …..

“Is concealing or fabricating the truth, lying or shielding from the truth to protect those we love or care about ever justified?”

“Isn’t it better to conceal or shield from truth to prevent hurting someone?” 

“What would the difference be in hurting someone in the short-term or long-term when all you are doing is trying to prevent pain in the first place?”

The short answer is NO, DON’T SHIELD, LIE, CONCEAL, PROTECT others from their own right to deal with hurt or pain to any degree! The truth will reveal itself one day, it always does, and will be far, far worse for all concerned if it is discovered at some later date than if told upfront from the outset. It does not “depend on the circumstances.” EVER!

The short and long answer are the difference between a nice guy (above) and good man (below).

Long version, honesty begins with self. A conversation most of us are unwilling to have, but we are going to have to address one day regardless, so we may as well begin sooner rather than later. As with everything in life, being truthful and honest with ourselves, first and foremost, is an inside job. The source of our troubles, pain, illness, as well as happiness, fulfilment and success, begins and ends within ourselves. Only then can we be truly honest with others.

“Connecting to self on such a deep level enables us to connect and communicate with others effectively, navigating, negotiating and learning positive compromise without losing ourselves, or suppressing our needs/wants/desires to attain a deeply rewarding, fulfilling, grounded life, living moment to moment, fully embodied.”

This is emotional maturity. It’s ‘conscious relating’. The opposite is victimhood, blaming others for how we feel, deal with something or don’t and refusing to take our share of responsibility for it! We can all point a finger of blame, but I suggest you take a moment to examine your hand and observe the THREE fingers pointing back at yourself!!! Take OWNERSHIP of YOUR part in the equation. No-one can actually hurt us, unless we give them permission to do so! Truth = vulnerability, resulting in growth for all. 

When we can stand fully grounded in our own emotions, thoughts, feelings, actions, reactions, we can assist others to process theirs. Each and every person is responsible for their own thoughts, feelings, actions and reactions. Equally we must stand as witness, give them space and time, allowing them to react however they will, knowing that ultimately, this is essential for their own growth maturity.

One has to look deeply into a person’s past to understand why, as an adult, would you choose to not tell the truth, why would you wish to shield others from something, especially about your own needs/wants/desires. You are in danger of digging yourself a deep hole you will later regret, unable to climb out of which WILL have disastrous consequences later on … manifesting one’s own illness is a classic bi-product of this, witnessed more times than I care to (disease being the body, mind, spirit at dis-ease). Physical manifestation of disease is generally in direct correlation to what needs healing in the emotional body.  If something is out of alignment, the body is now in disharmony, becoming an ideal environment for manifesting illness. Thus we have our own Body Intelligence directing us to what needs fixing. Most people aren’t this self-aware or grounded in their body to read the signs. 

It is sad to see, for example, a person portraying the perfect couple and marriage, when it is anything but, due to one of the two being untruthful about themselves, falsely believing revealing their truth would hurt the other! No so, if the love is genuine and the other person isn’t selfish.

There is always a reason for not being truthful about yourself and therefore an answer connected with childhood (inner child). Control, unworthiness, need to be needed, lack of self-respect, emotional immaturity, not trusting others to handle their emotions, not knowing how to deliver truth without blame or making it sound as though we are blaming the other person – this is deep personal learning that mainstream education does not teach (John Wineland is a wonderful spiritual teacher on this subject). We fear vulnerability and lack courage in stepping up to be heard and seen (David Deida’s work with men is excellent). We are not living authentically ourselves. What we do and what we say are incongruent.    

Some people sadly miss out on so much and deprive others seeing who they truly are because at some point in their childhood they were prevented, ridiculed, shamed, blamed from being who they truly are or made to sacrifice themselves as some sort of twisted virtue, resulting in some degree of false persona. These false and damaging belief systems become so ingrained, people can begin to lead lives of duality.

We are in effect not telling the truth about ourselves or situations, to protect ourselves, not others. It’s easy to project our own insecurities and false belief systems onto another. Suppressing or stifling the truth is the opposite of skilfully delivering it, knowing it may hurt. Being uncomfortable, accepting confrontation, is necessary and good for our health, development, healing, growth and new set point. It is part of life and should never be prevented. It’s how we become better people, better versions of ourselves. Remember, life is messy. Messy is good once in a while! 

I have guided people, according to where I was in my own stage of personal development (emotionally, spiritually) as well as professional knowledge, (logically, rationally). I’ve had my own truth to confront from time-to-time, as has everyone. I choose to tackle it head-on, benefiting me, my loved ones, those close to me as well as my clients and students in ways I could never imagine.

Telling the truth with love, kindness, integrity and from a grounded place sets everyone free creating a deeper trust, bond and intimacy, and, it must be said, can be such a turn-on to witness someone standing in their grounded truth; incredibly sexy, as it connects with intelligence!

We are not mean, cruel or heartless in delivering the uncomfortable truth, without blame. We are being responsible, emotionally mature, courageous, grown-up, brave, strong. It is our duty to behave honourably at all times.

Next time you find yourself in the potential position of lying to protect, take a moment before justifying your decision (and false belief system) and honestly, lovingly ask yourself …

Am I lying to protect others or am I lying to protect myself? 

Invariably it is the latter. I have never heard anyone say, “I’m so glad I was lied to/shielded from the truth, so much better not knowing, even though it has ultimately caused so much damage, some irreparable!” 

Yet everyone has voiced a version of “I wish I’d known the truth from the outset or sooner than I did, I could have dealt with it and the outcome would have been quite different and much easier on all concerned!”

I highly recommend and strive to live by The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz – Be impeccable with your word, Don’t take anything personally, Don’t make assumptions, Always do your best.

Conscious Relationships are available to us all. RELATIONSHIP AWAKENING TOUR of UK, Europe & USA coming soon, facilitated by Rachel Gedney and Carmen Vestergom.

“Rachel and Carmen have lifetimes experiences, learning and masterful knowledge around the subject of Relationship Awakening. This is the field of very deep self-enquiry and feeling into things that have often been buried for a long time. Together they hold and support such a process so that the participant can feel safe enough to feel, learn and grow in the most helpful and powerful way. They are a duo that truly harmonise and complement any process and situation. Both women are highly intuitive and insightful.

I’ve had the pleasure of interviewing and spending time with both individually and together, seeing first-hand how this synergy works so well.

Rachel is a woman I deeply admire because she just says it as it is and puts the cards on the table. You know where you are with her and I find that such a rare and important quality. It’s her transparency and integrity that makes her so great. A powerful leader with strength, direction and action.

Carmen has insight beyond belief and is able to uncover such deeply hidden things that they get resolved instantly. Her ability is like none I’ve come across before, offering support, depth and healing directive.  She has the kind of compassion and respect for humanity that truly creates harmony.”   Maria Anderson-Contreras, leadership facilitator, Body Intelligence

Some years ago, during my Pleasure Tribe Membership (Online Global Female Group), the concept of Erotic Edges was introduced to us. Pushing boundaries, moving out of our comfort zone, wherever that was for each of us. It entailed dropping into our deepest feminine desires, connecting with self to determine how we felt about each new practice or concept. There was a lot on offer from many teachers!

We all discovered at least one desire we yearned to embody, yet found our boundaries challenged. This meant releasing old belief systems and/or societal/family/religious conditioning to push our Erotic Edges further to feel where those Edges really were.

Thousands of us females from all walks of life, countries, belief systems, upbringing, cultures etc. All unique with our own individual Erotic Edge Blueprint. For some, merely being introduced to something new was enough; for others it meant learning, embodying and practicing it, integrating it into our everyday lives.

Intuition and dropping into our bodies, listening to our own innate wisdom, enabled us to feel into any fear or resistance we had, being fully present with it. Discover where that belief originated then eliminate any negative discourse (shame, guilt, judgement etc that I’ve mentioned many times before). Sometimes it meant going deep … really deep!

Men are no different in understanding their individual Edge and limit, capacity for growth and destiny. It takes a strong, honourable man to admit his fears, resistance and edge of practice. David Deida writes this in his book “The Way of The Superior Man”:

“It is dishonourable for him to lie to himself or others about his real place. He shouldn’t pretend he is more enlightened than he is, nor should he stop short of his actual edge. The more a man is playing his real edge, the more valuable he is as good company for other men, the more he can be trusted to be authentic and fully present. Where a man’s edge is located is less important than whether he is actually living his edge in truth, rather than being lazy or deluded.”

Your edge is where you stop short, or where you compromise your fullest gift, and, instead, cater to your fears. This can be in any life area, but in this case, intimate relationships. Are you a fearful man choosing to lean into his fear, living at his edge, putting his gift out from there? Or are you a fearful man who hangs back in the comfort zone, unwilling to even experience his fear on a day to day level?

The trick is, to “lean just beyond your edge of fear and discomfort to optimise your growth. Constantly. In everything you do”. Otherwise you stagnate in the zone of security and comfort. It takes a strong man to stand up and be willing to do this. To be vulnerable. To be seen.

John Wineland – Speaker, Teacher and Workshop Facilitator – guides men and women in the realms of life purpose, sexual intimacy and embodiment. Michael Burnstien – Real Man Awake – is a Conscious Masculinity Coach for men and women. TJ Bartel – Relationship Expert and Tantric educator. These men, like David Deida, have a common theme running through their own work. I have been fortunate to have had TJ Bartel as one of my main Teachers.

Fear –  of taking risks, failure, success, letting go and starting afresh, of lifestyle change, even fear of fear itself all contribute to a man not living at or leaning just beyond his edge. His relationship may be relatively secure/comfortable, but essentially dead. It lacks aliveness, depth, inspirational energy that is the sign of a man living at his edge.

By living at your edge you acknowledge your fears with acceptance; this equates to freedom, the male driving force, especially within a relationship. With the right woman, you will have that freedom, as she will be a consciously awake woman who will hold you accountable, not accepting your BS!

Acknowledging and staying with your fear, virtually constantly, staying at your edge, is where real transformation occurs. Let fear be your friend. Don’t hang back living a lesser life than you’re capable.

Own your fear and lean just beyond it, challenge your limits with an open heart. Stand in the space of unknowingness, raw and awake. You will thank yourself and your woman will love you all the more for it, trusting you implicitly. Lay the foundation for extraordinary relationships.

“Consciousness is beyond time, consciousness is timelessness.” – Osho

Rachel is an International Relationship Mentor and Guide, primarily assisting Males, having worked closely with Females for a number of years to Embody Their Pleasure for themselves and in relationships. Also now assisting couples. If you’d like to know how she can help you, please take advantage of her Complimentary 90 min Discovery Session to determine if working together is right for you and Rachel. Contact her on 07786 912 355 or book a time slot here https://calendly.com/houseoffeminine

If you’ve read Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, you may recall Chapter 11, The Mystery of Sex Transmutation. Highly relevant to my Relationship Mentoring and Guidance, in this instance for Males; also relevant to my Female clients, from both the male view point and reversing the information for us, although somewhat different.

For perspective, this book is a classic popular read for those who indulge in Personal Development, who are in Business or are Entrepreneurs, as well as being a useful tool for employees. It was written in 1937 during the Great Depression for and about Men. However, it has seen a revival of late, on the reading list of most Female Entrepreneurs; we now have our own version! 

Not expecting a chapter about Love, Sex and Romance, it is obvious to me, as Sex and Finance are the two central issues of a marriage or partnership, with Sex being THE most important ingredient of a highly successful relationship and life. Sexual energy is after all, the most creative energy on the planet, and where I have years of personal and professional experience! Taoist teachings and techniques are designed to increase a person’s sexual energy and to retain and not expend it. This is because sexual energy is life-enhancing.

The Mystery of Sex Transmutation refers to the joint emotions of Love, Sex and Romance, creating The Eternal Triangle of Achievement Building Genius. If a marriage or partnership is devoid of the balance of all three aspects, problems arise. I witness this time and again whilst guiding individuals to work through their specific issues. A man particularly, will never achieve the success he’s capable of without the three aspects being present in his marriage or partnership. That’s because he’s not living to his Masculine EDGE or creative force. More to write about next time.

If a person finds themselves in a ‘companionship’, ‘friendship’, ‘co-dependent’ or ‘sexless’ marriage or partnership, when they want and need more than that, there are some deep realisations to be dealt with. There is no shame in a person, male or female, wanting and needing sex and the intimacy derived from it. It is a beautiful act and the greatest gift we as humans can share with another. This being the connection we crave; the vast majority of us that is.

Neither Love (spiritual) or Sex (biological) alone will equate to true, authentic, honest, vulnerable, marital or partnership complete happiness. That is a truth. When Love, Sex and Romance are in a marriage or partnership, it is pure magic, with fulfilling spiritual and creative heights achieved.

If a woman isn’t educated on the importance of the above, or is indifferent, her man will seek what he needs elsewhere … and vice versa for that matter. This is where open, honest, vulnerable communication between couples is key, preferably from the start of a relationship. If communication has broken down where the subject of sex and intimacy are taboo (elephant in the room), we examine those barriers to move forward one way or another. Learning to speak from a place of love and vulnerability rather than blame and judgement is imperative. There is usually a subconscious energy of fear, neediness or control involved in one or both partners.

Many of us females actually love and want a lot more sex, however, there is some disillusionment about the sex that’s on the menu Gentlemen! We too desire more variety but we also require a lot more time, foreplay and attention … all frequently at the top of the list of female requests. The increase of consciously awake women turning to Ancient Eastern Practices of Tantra has seen a steady rise over the past 10-15 years and will continue to increase with the rise of the Divine Feminine where women are learning to embrace, as well as feel confident about their Sensuality and Sexuality.

We are balancing our Masculine and Feminine energies within but we desire and need more men to join us in your Divine Sacred Masculine, embracing both energies within to provide polarity for us. The time is now! We are all learning and relearning. We are equal as sexes, but not the same and we truly celebrate the differences.

We extend an open invitation to you Gentlemen to explore and create with us in all your Masculine glory. Will you rise to join us? I personally extend to you a complimentary 90 min Discovery Session to see if working together is agreeable to us both. Details below to book your session.

Rachel is an International Relationship Mentor and Guide, primarily assisting Males, having worked closely with Females for a number of years. Also now assisting couples. If you’d like to know how she can help you, please take advantage of her 90 min Discovery Session to determine if working together is right for you and Rachel. Contact her on 07786 912 355 or book a time slot here https://calendly.com/houseoffeminine

Fun and Pleasure are two essential ingredients for a fulfilling relationship. One of the main issues for couples in a long-term relationship is when FUN disappears and routine sets in.  Keeping fun alive and constantly seeking out and experimenting with new things/ideas/concepts, keeps us on our toes and boredom at bay. I love to see elderly couples still with a twinkle in their eyes, able to surprise each other after so many years together. Joyous! Something to emulate!

Of course, modern societal pressures and/or children make spontaneity challenging, although not impossible. It merely requires us to be conscious and present in our relationships as much as possible, adding a little thought and effort into it, to enjoy a thoroughly fulfilling life in a long-term relationship. This enhances EVERY area of our life with our chosen partner, in and out of the bedroom … yes I did say that!

We don’t mean to let fun slide; we don’t mean to become lazy, yet in most couples I see, routine has taken over from fun and real, deep, true, communication has broken down, hence they seek my guidance. Sometimes, they truly don’t know one another as much as they thought they did! Gentlemen, I’m your guide now, as I’ve been guiding Ladies for a few years!

Some couples only need a fresh perspective to bring fun back, others have much deeper issues requiring specialist professional assistance. As long as both are open, ready and willing to turn things around, it can be achieved. Then there are times when a couple have grown so far apart, realising their relationship is at an end. In those cases, the aim is to navigate those separations, making them as amicable as possible.

With a little imagination, a dash of negotiation and a degree of compromise, here are four ideas to get you started …

1.       Love Languages: I highly recommend Gary Chapman’s book The Five Love Languages, so simple, yet life-changing!  When you know and understand your own and your partner’s primary Love Language, life becomes easy and fun. The Love Languages are: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch. We all have one or possibly two dominant Love Languages, although all do indeed come into play in varying degrees. When I was first introduced to this some years ago, I could see every family member in their dominant LL, and play to it!

2.      Partner Dance: One of my personal favourites as a partner dancer since childhood! Once dancing Jive/Ceroc but since 2003, Salsa/Latin have been and continue to be my passion followed by Tango. I’ve even worked in the industry and danced with the best of the best from around the world at our International Weekenders. Partner dance is something to enjoy and have fun with, building confidence, co-operation and acceptance of role, creating magic to music. There is nothing more sensual than taking dance lessons and then dancing a routine with your own life-partner. My top recommendation would be to attend a full Dance Weekender to sample every type of Dance before deciding on which one you and your partner would prefer to learn together on a regular basis. 

3.      Date Nights: My friends with children impress me by honouring each other, placing Date Nights as priority in their hectic lives and sticking to these special pre-planned evenings together. They really look forward to some conscious quality time away from daily routines. Get super creative here. Reconnect and share your innermost desires with your partner, we all grow at different rates and find that we crave new or different things from those that we once enjoyed. This is natural and we must feel free to express our new desires without fear of judgement, rejection, shame or ridicule. Dress to Impress, it will make you feel all the more Sensual! But more importantly, it shows a reverence for your relationship, however long you have been together. I challenge you to leave your phones at home too; no distractions! 

4.      Revamp Your Bedroom: Oh là là! I’m going there! Turn your Bedroom into your BOUDOIR; this is an absolute MUST, having inspired many women to take immediate action, Men have also been inspired! Sumptuous bedding, throws, pillows, cushions, fairy lights or mood lighting, candles, flowers, diffuser for Essential Oils. And a special cupboard for intimate toys, oils etc! Declutter your entire Bedroom, rearrange it, change the furniture or furnishings if necessary, remove all technology (Bedrooms are for rest and FUN!) and if you have children, secure a lock on your door! A Sumptuous Boudoir aids restful sleep too … trust me, I know this!

These are only a sample of what is available to you, if you’d like to learn more, please drop me a line. Have Fun!

Rachel is an International Relationship Mentor and Guide, primarily assisting Males, having worked closely with Females for a number of years. Also now working with couples. If you’d like to know how she can help you, please take advantage of her 90 min Discovery Session to determine if working together is right for you and Rachel. Contact her on 07786 912 355 or book a time slot here https://calendly.com/houseoffeminine

Fear is something we all have, in varying degrees, in at least one life area. Fear in Relationships is commonplace. I’ve yet to meet any individual who doesn’t have fear. If they believe themselves to be without fear, they’re deluding themselves! It’s probably unconsciously playing out in patterns!

Relationships are complex and ever evolving and differ with every person we engage with. What was so in our 20’s is definitely not applicable in our 50’s. Add to this a Spiritually Awakened person with one who is not, this is where discord becomes an issue, even if on the outside, everything appears harmonious. 

One partner could be blissfully happy, unaware that anything is wrong, whereas the other partner has suppressed and hidden their true selves for the sake of appearances and not rocking the boat. This will work, up until it doesn’t … usually in the form of a ‘big wake-up call’ as in serious illness or injury. I’ve witnessed it many times. Even in single people when something has to change. It happened to me at 45 with total collapse taking 18 months out of my life, whilst raising my son alone.

Where I see the most disharmony in couples, where one has evolved way beyond the other and is fearful of hurting, upsetting, unsettling things. Assuming both want the relationship to continue, something can be done to bring them back into balance – not easy, but it can be done if they’re both committed to doing the individual work.

Unfortunately, this does not work with all couples for various reasons, married or not, and the disharmony is so vast that nothing can bring them back into balance. One has simply outgrown the other. It has nothing to do with not loving the person, it is merely down to one allowing their natural evolvement to continue, the other is blissfully unaware and happy in the status quo. Stuck!

So, what type of fear? Fear of acceptance, rejection, guilt, judgement, failure, having what we truly want/need. Fear of being vulnerable, seen, authentic, living our truth. Fear of being honest, with our partner and ourselves. Fear of what others will think or believe, of losing everything we’ve worked hard for. Fear of releasing belief systems that no longer serve us. Fear of the unknown on the flipside of fear itself. And when we meet someone who is on the same spiritual level and path as us, seeing us to the core, this can trigger every fear we have!

Fear keeps us trapped in our comfort zone, impedes our growth. Life has a way of presenting situations time and again until we get the message and address the fear. 

By doing the work on ourselves, learning about self from the inside out, breaking though that fear, we not only release ourselves from our invisible restraints, we also release others to do the same. You stepping up leads the way and gives them permission to step up also. Whether they choose to do so or not is not our concern, but the opportunity presents itself anyway.

My female clients and I have all broken through our fears, small and big. It’s been challenging, dark at times, and courageous for us all. How you feel on the other side of fear, is in contrast to what you expect. I personally, have never felt more grounded, alive, clear, calm and sure of so many things than I do now. No angst, no worry, no caring what other people think, and yet, my love and compassion for people has heightened. It’s like cliff jumping and discovering you do indeed have wings. Now my male clients are breaking through their fears in one-on-one Mentoring and Guidance with me. It makes my soul sing.

Letting go and surrendering to oneself, allowing and trusting, not holding back, takes courage, strength, belief, faith far beyond normal. Whether it’s love, sex, romance, lust, sensuality, sexuality in our relationships, we all have some fear in surrendering and being seen. Yet we crave acceptance, connection, understanding, heart-centred love (not solar plexus love … that’s for another article!) My work has shown me that too few have the relationship they truly desire. And sex is central to a loving, fulfilling relationship … that’s also another topic for a later date!

My female clients and I have a vast amount of support in our international online groups and are doing fine, however, there is not an equal amount of support for men, who were asking me for guidance. 

So, here I am gentlemen, available as your Mentor and Guide for Love, Sex, Romance. The Sacred Masculine is as important as the Divine Feminine and we adore you. Please take advantage of your 90 minute Discovery Session to determine if working with me is something you’d find beneficial and enjoy; I have some wonderful things lined up for you.

To contact me directly, email houseoffeminine@btinternet.com, phone 07786 912355 or schedule a 90 min Discovery Session here https://calendly.com/houseoffeminine

NB: House of Feminine website will be live soon.

Gentlemen, this one’s for you, because you asked so kindly and persistently …

Awakening of Divine Feminine and Masculine is rising the world over, more in some places than others, although also in places where we would not necessarily imagine. I have had the pleasure of witnessing this over the past few years in my Global Female/Mixed Online Groups.

It is beautiful to witness both sexes balancing their Masculine/Feminine within, honouring both energies, also seeing more Feminine energy rising (through females and males), getting what they truly want in their Relationships and Pleasure … although we have a long way to go yet for it to become commonplace. 

However, we need the Masculine energy to rise also to match the Feminine energy. Both are equally important within each of us as well as (generally) males being more masculine, females being more feminine, for a healthy society. Polarity is essential. In Relationships. In the World.

I’ve seen men emasculated by women in their lives, although not as extensive as women being abused by men, but enough. And then there are both sexes at odds with their role in Relationships, ergo their role in the World. Disconnected from their core essence. Disconnected from themselves. Disconnected from life itself. People settling for less, suppressing who they really are, disillusioned and unhappy, some even putting on a façade of happiness (often leading to illness – dis-ease) rather than get out of their comfort zone to feel alive again, living their authentic, vulnerable truth. To live authentically and truthfully, when it originates from a place/person of integrity is in fact, a selfless act, the exact opposite of what we believe.

The old way didn’t work, our current way is broken so some of us are doing something different, which is working but I can assure you of no quick fixes, no magic formulas, no mystery or secrets you are not privy to, and no promises of results unless you are prepared to put in the work (life-long) … on yourself! If you don’t know yourself, how are you supposed to know the opposite sex? ‘The One’, is YOU!

I’m curious gentlemen, where do you go, or who do you talk to, when you want and seek assistance with Relationships, Love, Sex, Romance? 

We females have our friends, sisters, mums, in-person or online groups/tribes, but I have discovered that males don’t generally talk about their Relationships, let alone sex lives, to anyone (especially their partners/wives so it becomes a taboo subject) … except they do, they talk to me! Often, and without prompting, I have had men opening up to me about their relationships and sex life the majority of my life – absolute strangers sometimes. And what they have to say is fascinating. It turns out that men actually do have rather a lot to say about their Relationships!

I’m now in a position to truly assist men to achieve the relationships they desire, my doors are open to receiving you whilst continuing my work with females, which is where I’ve spent the past few years, also understanding more about myself in the security of my female tribes.

I’m frequently asked if I’m a “Sex Coach” as I’m all about ‘Pleasure’ in Relationships. I’m not a Sexologist (although some of my peers are), however I do cover Sex and Sexuality in Relationships as part of my Mentor/Guide work, I also cover Love and Romance for you, Sensuality for my females.

What do I mean exactly by Pleasure? Simply put, non-sexual and sexual, with a partner or with self. Sometimes entirely separate, other times intertwined! Guiding you to what’s available and showing you what’s already within you, no shame, judgement, guilt, merely pure pleasure. 

Relationships are Pleasurable and Pleasure is a big part of Relationships.

If you’d like to know more about my work and how I can guide you to healthier, happier, more fulfilled relationships, with self-knowledge plus understanding of females ~ what you want/what we want, please take advantage of my 90 minute Discovery Session to see how working together can serve us both. Contact me on 07786 912355 or houseoffeminine@btinternet.com. New website houseoffeminine.org will be live soon.