If you’ve read Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, you may recall Chapter 11, The Mystery of Sex Transmutation. Highly relevant to my Relationship Mentoring and Guidance, in this instance for Males; also relevant to my Female clients, from both the male view point and reversing the information for us, although somewhat different.
For perspective, this book is a classic popular read for those who indulge in Personal Development, who are in Business or are Entrepreneurs, as well as being a useful tool for employees. It was written in 1937 during the Great Depression for and about Men. However, it has seen a revival of late, on the reading list of most Female Entrepreneurs; we now have our own version!
Not expecting a chapter about Love, Sex and Romance, it is obvious to me, as Sex and Finance are the two central issues of a marriage or partnership, with Sex being THE most important ingredient of a highly successful relationship and life. Sexual energy is after all, the most creative energy on the planet, and where I have years of personal and professional experience! Taoist teachings and techniques are designed to increase a person’s sexual energy and to retain and not expend it. This is because sexual energy is life-enhancing.
The Mystery of Sex Transmutation refers to the joint emotions of Love, Sex and Romance, creating The Eternal Triangle of Achievement Building Genius. If a marriage or partnership is devoid of the balance of all three aspects, problems arise. I witness this time and again whilst guiding individuals to work through their specific issues. A man particularly, will never achieve the success he’s capable of without the three aspects being present in his marriage or partnership. That’s because he’s not living to his Masculine EDGE or creative force. More to write about next time.
If a person finds themselves in a ‘companionship’, ‘friendship’, ‘co-dependent’ or ‘sexless’ marriage or partnership, when they want and need more than that, there are some deep realisations to be dealt with. There is no shame in a person, male or female, wanting and needing sex and the intimacy derived from it. It is a beautiful act and the greatest gift we as humans can share with another. This being the connection we crave; the vast majority of us that is.
Neither Love (spiritual) or Sex (biological) alone will equate to true, authentic, honest, vulnerable, marital or partnership complete happiness. That is a truth. When Love, Sex and Romance are in a marriage or partnership, it is pure magic, with fulfilling spiritual and creative heights achieved.
If a woman isn’t educated on the importance of the above, or is indifferent, her man will seek what he needs elsewhere … and vice versa for that matter. This is where open, honest, vulnerable communication between couples is key, preferably from the start of a relationship. If communication has broken down where the subject of sex and intimacy are taboo (elephant in the room), we examine those barriers to move forward one way or another. Learning to speak from a place of love and vulnerability rather than blame and judgement is imperative. There is usually a subconscious energy of fear, neediness or control involved in one or both partners.
Many of us females actually love and want a lot more sex, however, there is some disillusionment about the sex that’s on the menu Gentlemen! We too desire more variety but we also require a lot more time, foreplay and attention … all frequently at the top of the list of female requests. The increase of consciously awake women turning to Ancient Eastern Practices of Tantra has seen a steady rise over the past 10-15 years and will continue to increase with the rise of the Divine Feminine where women are learning to embrace, as well as feel confident about their Sensuality and Sexuality.
We are balancing our Masculine and Feminine energies within but we desire and need more men to join us in your Divine Sacred Masculine, embracing both energies within to provide polarity for us. The time is now! We are all learning and relearning. We are equal as sexes, but not the same and we truly celebrate the differences.
We extend an open invitation to you Gentlemen to explore and create with us in all your Masculine glory. Will you rise to join us? I personally extend to you a complimentary 90 min Discovery Session to see if working together is agreeable to us both. Details below to book your session.
Rachel is an International Relationship Mentor and Guide, primarily assisting Males, having worked closely with Females for a number of years. Also now assisting couples. If you’d like to know how she can help you, please take advantage of her 90 min Discovery Session to determine if working together is right for you and Rachel. Contact her on 07786 912 355 or book a time slot here https://calendly.com/houseoffeminine